There is a fine line between being loved by someone and being used for pleasure. But, it is really tough for someone to differentiate between both. But, if you know which signs to look out for, you will definitely save yourself from a heartbreak.
If you notice these signs in your partner, know that you’re just being used for pleasure.
1. He doesn’t really open up about his emotions.
This is the commonest of all signs. If somebody isn’t close to you emotionally, but only comes around when he needs you physically, let go of him.
2. Is only interested in making love.
How could you not sense something fishy? If s*x is the only thing that makes him wanna stick around, he is definitely just using you for pleasure.
3. Still talks to his exes.
Rule no. 1 of any relationship, you are not supposed to be in contact with your exes let alone talk to them and meet them up. If he is doing this, you know what to conclude.
4. You feel like a stranger around him.
He’s always busy with absolutely anything else that’ll keep you at bay. He barely wants to talk to you about future or anything for that matter.
5. He doesn’t want to know the real you.
He doesn’t seem interested in knowing what you like and what you don’t and doesn’t even make an effort to get to know you.
6. He always walks away from arguments.
Anybody who loves you will make sure to resolve whatever that’s bothering you. But if he doesn’t then know that he doesn’t love you.
7. He always changes the topic when you talk about the future.
Let’s face it you always think about the future with the one you wanna spend it with. But, if he isn’t at all interest in talking about the future does he really love you?
8. He doesn’t care about you.
He doesn’t cheer you up when you had a bad day or asks you about how you’re feeling. Well, he definitely doesn’t care about you.
9. His friends have his attention more than you do.
Him hanging out with his friends is okay as long as he gives you the attention you require. But, when you see that’s not happening you know that something’s wrong.
10. He never enjoys around you.
Well, if the only time he enjoys is when you’re not in your clothes. Well, take a hint girl.
11. He has never introduced you to his family.
Well, when you’re only gonna use someone as a pleasure why would you wanna introduce the person to your parents?
12. Your gut tells you that something’s wrong.
Now, we often make the mistake of not listening to our gut feeling. Don’t do it, please.